The book is a heartfelt and vulnerable recounting of his most formative experiences as a young boy who grew up feeling different, not fitting in, but who also lived in a world that made it very clear that his difference wasn't going to be tolerated. From the several prejudices of the times, to the bullying and the prevalent homophobic slang, to later seeing people's careers being ruined after the revelation that they were gay, it is not hard to understand why a young Asian-American man would be fully convinced that the best thing to do is to live his life hiding who he truly is.
The way George Takei explains his everyday experiences paints a very clear picture of the American society of the 1950s and on. His thorough way of describing things makes you understand both the man and his way of thinking specifically, as well as the conditions and political climate that he grew up into. On a global scale, we still have a long way to go when it comes to LGBTQIA+ rights and social acceptance, but it is also undeniable that just a few decades ago homosexuality was condemned socially and politically to such a degree that it rendered people who were outed unemployable pariahs, ruining their careers, families, reputations, and everything else in their lives for daring to love who they loved.
In this book George Takei also takes us through the stages of his career, from the early days where he caught the acting bug and couldn't let go of his dream, to how he was propelled to fame, landing the role of Hikaru Sulu in 1966, despite the difficulties of the era and the setbacks they caused for an Asian-American actor in the industry.
It's a fascinating read, both for fans of the actor, but also for anyone interested about the history of LGBTQIA+ rights, and frankly anyone who has ever felt isolated, lonely, and like they didn't quite fit in. Seeing a young boy growing up to follow his dreams, finding a person to love, eventually getting married to his husband in 2008, and finding his place in the world, living his life on his own terms, is nothing short of inspiring, and also a little reminder that, despite dark times, change is always possible.
The art by the extremely talented Harmony Becker, who also worked on 'They Called Us Enemy' is gorgeous and fits the book well, and the storytelling is just beautiful and sincere, making it impossible to not get invested. From the very first pages it becomes very clear that this is a story of hope, being told by a man who is looking back at his life, and after decades of being told by society that it's best to keep one of the most important parts of himself hidden, he is sharing his truth with the world.
A huge thank you to IDW Publishing and Top Shelf Productions for offering me an advance review copy. The book is coming out on June 10, 2025.